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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you feel you are to blame for the blow-ups then you shouldn't punish the in-laws by witholding the grandkids visitation. On the other hand, if the in-laws are unreasonable, rude, etc. then you have no obligation to them and should do what is best for your family. Do you want your kids around people who don't know how to act? I don't, which is why we have absolutely no relationship with our in-laws, to answer your original question.[/quote] I agree - if the in-laws are wacko, isn't it great they are never around? You don't want your kids to be used to dysfunction. I've experiencing the usual hackling by DCUMs over my MIL woes, so I won't really get into it - but suffice it to say she is not able to control herself around my 6 month old DD (screaming her head off, cussing, acting weird walking around with her hands on her head so we won't "smell her," etc.) so now DH and I both have zero contact with her. DH's father just got out of the federal pen on various charges, so he hasn't even met DD. Frankly, I wouldn't mind having him around - it's just MIL who's psycho.[/quote]
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