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[quote=Anonymous]I believe in separate finances. As long as he is paying the bills and you can verify the claim I think it's okay. I would negotiate that he has to maintain a life insurance policy with you as the beneficiary that provides income while the kids are minors. He must also prove to you quarterly that the bills are being paid timely. He would also be responsible for saving for the kids, setting up a trust for them in case he passes and the only beneficiary I would allow for the house is the kids with a life estate for me. You save your money op. This gives you the ability to reach your goals. Some people are clueless with money but you still love them. That sounds like the case with you op. He has deemed your irresponsible. [/quote]
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