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[quote=Anonymous]I feel for you, OP. I went through this with my own mother and my own small house after a difficult birth that left me injured. I begged her to postpone her visit, not come, choose a different time, anything. She was undeterred and I have terrible memories of barely being able to walk, still bleeding, and her asking what was for lunch and offering to “hold the baby” but making a fuss about how uncomfortable her sitting position was, asking for more pillows and a drink, and passing her back after 12 minutes. A one week visit and I got 12 minutes of help. My relationship with my mother has never been the same. I don’t invite her to visit. Ever. She asked at one point why but didn’t like the truth. If you don’t set boundaries for this visit, I assure you that your relationship with MIL will be broken enough that it will either be its own natural boundary OR you’ll get some serious boundaries in the future! It will work itself out but it won’t be pretty. [/quote]
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