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OP, because we don't know the details of the rift (and I am NOT asking you to provide them -- just noting that only you know them and we don't) I'd say this: If the rift involves actual or potential legal threats (suing for money, trying for grandparental visitation "rights," dispute over property, etc. etc.) -- then as a previous poster noted, you might need to know what's in the letter in case she is notifying you of some attempt at legal action. If there is truly zero chance of there being any legal stuff going on, then let it simply return to her without your ever trying to pick it up. Cut off means truly cut off, as in zero contact, and that includes contact via certified letter, unless there may be a legal document in that letter.

And BTW, if there is something legal going on (even just inside her head), you might want to get a lawyer who will tell her to communicate only with the lawyer about the legal issue, and not directly with you in any way. But that will only feed her need for contact and you don't want to do it unless there's a genuine and serious legal issue that would need to be resolved. [/quote]

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