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[quote=Anonymous] DH 61 here. Most heterosexual marriages would be materially better if each partner tried harder to discover and meet the others' unmet needs. That can start with simply asking your partner what needs they have that they wish were being fulfilled better by you, and then listen carefully. It is perhaps a stereotype, but for men, those unmet needs are often in the bedroom. A DW who wants to reanimate her marriage thus can sometimes do so pretty easily by focusing on that and showing more interest, enthusiasm, and open-mindedness. Variety helps. You can create variety with the same person but it takes imagination and work. Many DH have completely abandoned any romantic efforts towards their wives. So this is an area, along with helping around the house and with other life chores, where many DH can make improvements quickly. Someone once said that romance to many wives is like a BJ yo many DHs. Crass, but there is an element of truth to this, [/quote]
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