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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Early 40s DW. I’m pretty over being married to my spouse. Nothing wrong with DH or our marriage, I just don’t feel a spark. A number of my female friends say they feel the Same. Yet, the men I know of the same age seem blissfully happy, including my DH.

What gives? Any DH out there want to shed light? DWs is it a perimenopause midlife crisis?

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Men are not blissfully happy. I bet your husband is as unhappy(or much more unhappy vs your level)as you are. Many men are extremely lonely and isolated in their marriages. Men are told no one cares how you feel so suck it up and continue on. [/quote]

Who is saying this?  Can they please stop?  
I would like to know what’s up with my husband.  I mean, his insistence that he’s fine and has no problems makes me feel gaslighted.  I know what I see.  Im not crazy.  [/quote]

He doesn’t like being married to the kind of person who would say gaslighted.[/quote]

Ok.  I don’t like being told that I’m crazy and that the things I see happening aren’t happening.  [/quote]

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