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[quote=Anonymous]I just posted, but I wanted to add something I have posted before...I have hated gifts my whole life even when I could not afford much because in my family a gift is not a gift...it's a tool for emotional torment. If you give a gift and than you is not enough then just stop. In my family, they cannot elt it go. You have to answer all sorts of questions about how it is being used. If you cannot be available on command due to a work conflict, then it's "how dare you after all the gifts we have given your family over the years." If you don't display the gift and gush about it year after year it's an issue. Just no. No thank you. Just be nice. That's gift enough.[/quote]
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