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[quote=Anonymous]When my elderly Mom was hospitalized, there were two things that I noticed that helped enormously with her confusion: Having a private room, and having someone she knew — usually me — with her at all times. I wouldn’t view it as “neglectful “ if you didn’t do this, or couldn’t do this, but I will say that your decision to have a family member with him could have a significant impact on his well-being and prognosis. Talk with your SIL and perhaps get a clearer understanding of just why she’s recommending this. Being elderly, hospitalized and confused isn’t the same as being younger, hospitalized, and lucid. It just isn’t. For me the issue is less about what’s expected and more about what you hope to accomplish. One possibility could be to get someone to do private duty. It’s not the same as having a family member, but having a calming person there could be one alternative. [/quote]
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