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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I truly don't understand why men and women don't discuss this before marriage? Please help me understand why you guys didn't have this discussion? THere was an amazing conversation in tech twitter last year about men open expressing they have no desire to be a breadwinner. [/quote] What? Men can’t bring it up safely while dating. You come off as a 50s Neanderthal. Many women don’t think about SAH, thinking of having it all and the education and career they built, but then when they get home they have that tiny baby who seems defenseless and can’t imagine leaving them. There is often no fruitful pre marriage counseling. MAYBE… women can filter for even higher paying DH, to insure against all eventualities, but I think most women filter for as high income as they can nowadays. [/quote]
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