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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I always feel like it would be impossible to fall out of love with your spouse once you've had children together -- having children just feels like such a bonding experience -- i can't imagine ever wanting to leave my spouse now that we have two kids.  But you never know.  It's scary to think how things can change quickly.[/quote]

Get your head out of the clouds and stop looking through rose colored glasses.  Children are one of the main reasons couples drift apart because, usually, the mother pays little, if any, attention to her DH (I am a wife, FWIW).  Both partners take each other for granted.  A marriage has to be worked on every single day of the year.  I read some of the things women post on DCUM about their husbands and there is no doubt these marriages aren't going to last.  [/quote]

You sound like a peach to live with. Please great psychic tell us more about your predictions...

For the record...the research suggests it's not so much about complaints and disagreements, it's about HOW those disagreements are handled and the ratio of positive to negative interactions. If you have 5 times more positive interactions, but you get annoyed sometimes, it doesn't mean you are going to divorce. Haven't seen any research about those who vent on DCUM so our great psychic master is talking out of her a$$.[/quote]

New poster here. Well, research actually says that the number one reason for divorce for couples with children is INFIDELITY. It has NOTHING to do with disagreements and positive or negative interactions.

Your post is very naive. Disagreements do not cause infidelity.

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