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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My DD is in the same situation. BF is white, we are Asians. We have made it clear that we will not allow DD to move in with the BF. He has 3 years to get his act together. DD is also getting more advanced degrees in her field. They can get married, sign prenups, she can freeze her eggs. She has around 8 years before she should try for children. In the 5 years she can determine if she wants to have kids with her BF/ DH or not. She can divorce if he is not the right guy to be the father of her kids. No man can keep up the pretense for so long. Life is too short. We have wealth that can support her and our grandkids. Her mistake was choosing a male who is culturally not geared to be a provider and a family man. [/quote] You sound well intentioned but controlling. I've a feeling this is her way of revolting. Back off so she can make rational decisions.[/quote]
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