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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]

So wait.. let me get this straight

1. You're not yet divorced.
2. Your STBX has MAJOR mental heath issues (so severe that he's not allowed to see his children).
3. Your STBX is very jealous. 
4. and you want to go on vacation with your STBX's sisters husband?

Have you lost your mind?!?
Do you have any idea how badly this will trigger your ex??
You're not divorced yet, so he still has PLENTY of time to make your life a living hell in court by tying up or contesting your divorce proceedings for-e-ver.

If there wasn't all kinds of gossip about you prior to this by your ex's family, there will be after this trip... it won't be about your ex's mental illnesses anymore, it will be all about you (no matter how innocent this is).

Use better judgment - send the kids, and you stay home. 
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I am not sure where you got that my husband wasn’t allowed to see the kids. [/quote]

[b]My husband has pretty significant mental illness and his contact with the kids is limited due to it.[/b]

Limited/not being able to see them =  potato/🥔
That's what you took from my entire post?
Not how triggered your "husband" will be?

I'm sorry... now he's your "husband"? 🧐
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Limited does not mean "is not allowed to".  Those are two totally different things.  I'm not sure why you say "now he's your husband". You quoted me calling him "my husband" in the initial post.  I've referred to him that way throughout, because that's what he is.  [/quote]

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