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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. It’s not just reading, it’s making DC resist prayers over and over. I know my mother. This is not a nice open ended discussion about Jesus. This id fir her own satisfaction. She’s gotten sneaky in her old age. [/quote]

I believe you OP. My own mother did not do this, but I can't tell you the number of times I had to hear about my brother not baptizing his kids, to include her joking that she was going to get some holy water and baptize them when they were alone. She didn't do that, but I get it.

This is a huge breach of trust and crashing through boundaries. I think for me it would be a sit down with my mom, possibly with my husband there as well, and telling her that she doesn't have to like what I've chosen as an adult, but she has to accept it.

If she wanted to take your son to church, in the open, I'd probably argue that you should let her. But this sneaking around and asking him to keep the Bible reading secret is a no go. [/quote]

No, a random person can’t just baptize someone.

Troll. [/quote]

Agreed. I know more than one situation where a grandparent believes they have “secretly” baptized their grandkid. You can argue about the theology of whether this is really a baptism or not depending on your particular brand of religion. But even if “not real” the nonreligious parents are understandably very angry about this. I mean, if my MIL, went behind my back to make my kid some other religion (when we attend a specific church), we would be pretty mad even if it was “fake membership.”

Actually, a random person can baptize someone.  They don't even have to be Christian, only intend to "do what the Church does."  Not that they should, of course.  [/quote]

This is complete bs. Can’t you even troll competently?[/quote]

At least in the Catholic Church any lay person can absolutely conduct a baptism.  Do some research instead of calling other people trolls.[/quote][/quote]

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