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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Has your MIL ever said anything about her wishes? My MIL has said many (many) times that she does not want to go to a “home.” She wants to stay in her house. We are all aware of her desires (even my kids). Maybe her daughters are honoring her wishes? [/quote] My parents said same. They are currently broke, incontinent, can barely walk, etc. But both say they ‘won’t move’. For the ‘their wishes’ people, I hope you get to deal with this special kind of hell. It’s impractical and unsustainable, but ‘feeeeeeelllllsssss’[/quote] Very sorry you are dealing with this. My MIL lives in a one story house and has sufficient resources to pay for in home care. My dad did not have the resources and ultimately had to go into a nursing home even though it wasn’t his preference. Getting old sucks. [/quote]
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