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[quote=Anonymous]The best way to influence people’s behavior is to inspire them to emulate you. You need to focus on yourself at least as much as you focus on others I second the posters who are saying you are setting a bad example to your children, essentially telling them they should sacrifice themselves for other people’s happiness. Ergo, their own self care and happiness doesn’t matter. We have all seen how this plays out in adulthood. Break the cycle now. Get into therapy. Read the book Boundary Boss. Get interested in self help books/podcasts for women with the disease to please. [/quote]
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