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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't see why OP should be asking her exH about how her kids spend their spare time while at HER house. It's the custodial parent prerogative to plan activities any way they see fit, I would be surprised if the separation agreement states anything else.

If OP scheduled a sleepover for HIS custodial time/at his house then of course she should have consulted first[/quote]

I really don’t agree with your statement and I can imagine how utterly dysfunctional it would be for the kids in this situation [/quote]

I agree. It's not even about a separation agreement, it's about being a good human. It takes two seconds to shoot over a text to let him know. Fighting with the other parent over every small detail and trying to cut them out because you think you can since it isn't stated in your separation agreement will make for a hard road in co-parenting. You're making your own life more difficult and it will trickle down to your children.[/quote]

Np.

Shooting over an FYI text to a high conflict, personality-disordered Ex will catalyze his fighting you. No matter what, he will disagree and argue.

Bless you that you’ve never sent a “2 second text” to a dysfunctional person, only to have him kick off 50 texts of lunatic personal attack calls, VMs, and texts back.  Bless you. [/quote]

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