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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op….it’s not ok to plan an extended family vacation and then invite everyone but one family member. That’s just mean. You should have kept it to just your twin and her kids and not mentioned it to anyone else. I also think it’s odd that you choose to live two hours away from your parents, and your sister lives ten minutes away, but you complain she gets more child care. Well of course she does. She lives ten minutes away. You all sound like dramatic nightmares, including you.[/quote] +1. OP keeps talking about “boundaries,” but other than the parents inviting the older sister on the trip (and I agree with you, once the twin and the parents were invited, not inviting the older sister is mean), I don’t see a lot of boundary crossing. I see OP being massively resentful of her parent’s attention to the older sister. I do wonder about the dynamic with the twin — it sounds like the bond between the twins has something to do with this dynamic. [/quote]
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