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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here- my mom has literally been sending me and my sisters screen shots from Brene Brown that have been taken out of context. The way she is interpreting it is enabling. I'm irritated. I can't cancel, it's too late now. [/quote] I come from dysfunction too. My mom also did Golden Child Scapegoat and then tries to make us all behave like we love eachother in some disturbing of dance of hers. Don't engage. Don't defend. Don't try to reason with her. Look, if you are desperate enough and can afford it you and twin could back out and say you are all sick or something. Otherwise you go and remember this feeling well so you never get sucked in again. You don't vacation with your parents. You don't tell them about plans you made, even with twin sister. [/quote] I should have taken this advice before engaging. I did engage and was literally invalidated on every, single point. My mom had excuses for everything.[/quote]
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