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[quote=Anonymous][quote]And now you have learned that sports “friends” aren’t actually friends. Those people were “nice” to you bc they thought their kids were better than yours, now they see that isn’t the case, so they won’t be nice anymore. It works like this….if your kid is great, everyone will shit on him and you, unless they want something from you (like help making their kid better; getting their kid on a better team). If your kid is crap, everyone pretends to be nice to you while making fun of your kid behind your back.[/quote] I mean yes, it is a terrible dynamic, but you are portraying it as if there is something wrong with the people vs. the system. If, at your workplace, you knew that some people would get a promotion each year and some would get a demotion, and you were constantly competing against your coworkers to move up vs down, I am betting things would not be too friendly there either. [/quote]
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