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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It’s obvious that all you haters give crappy gifts.

A $20 bar soap is a very nice gift actually. But a $20 set of plates, is definitely garbage. [/quote]

I give great gifts, and I love it. But because I understand that People Are Different From Me, I recognize and accept that I'm not going to "get as good as I give," and I keep it moving. Because my intention is to give something that will bring joy and show appreciation and celebration, my intention is not to keep score or "come out even" or "win."

You tried it, though.[/quote]
What makes you so certain you give “great gifts”? I have a friend who feels she is a great gift giver but it’s stuff no one wants (like a $20 bar of soap….wut?)[/quote]

Because I tend to get pictures of kids playing with or wearing the stuff I sent (I always ask for a list), or my sister will tell me which of the cheeses was her favorite (she has a cheese blog), or I get thank you notes, etc. I always ask for a list, and if one is provided, I shop from that. I also remember things like my mom's favorite flowers, my mom and dad's favorite restaurant, and if MIL mentions something in passing (she's good at dropping hints), I make a note and take that into account when DH is ready to order something for his parents. I also pay attention to what brands my friends wear/shops they frequent, and get gift cards accordingly. I shop from our teachers' Amazon wish lists. I read gift guides in magazines, and often something will remind me of a friend or family member.

I'm glad I could clear that up for you. Do you have any other questions for me? [/quote]
So, the recipients are polite and you think you give amazing gifts? You do sound quite full of yourself.[/quote]

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