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Reply to "Boyfriend is NOT a planner- do you have this dynamic?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He sounds like he doesn't want to go very badly. I would drop the subject, and if he brings it up again tell him that he is welcome to take the lead on planning. But I would not date a man like this. [/quote] OP: This is kind of what I'm thinking. I secretly made backup reservations at two nice hotels, just so that we/I have something to do that holiday weekend. I may just not bring it up again and see what happens.[/quote] See, you have already invested 100x more time and effort than he has! Stop it! Let him experience "spontaneous", which likely means he asks you on a Thursday night to go away for a weekend and you say you can't because of the kids. Fun times.[/quote]
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