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[quote=Anonymous]I had a big spidey sense about my daughter's fiance,  and it really amped  up throughout their engagement. I did say something.  It did  not go well.  I felt his family was pretty toxic ( there was palpable seething resentment within the family which had been going on for years), the family's loyalty lines  aligned through this saga, and there was an arrogance I picked up from him- he wasn't loving,  it seemed. Not abusive, but not warm toward her, really, and critical  of a lot. 
He was all about his family, could barely manage to come to any of her family or friend events. He was never unfriendly, per se, but kind of " absent." He had to live near his family. All his family things. His mother resented her deeply. Everyone had to agree  with her long standing vendetta towards certain  others she hated for nonsensical reasons.  
Yes, he abruptly left my daughter to move back home with Mom- several years in the marriage. No kids, thank goodness  It was the best favor he ever did. So grateful.  No, I was not surprised. [/quote]

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