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[quote=Anonymous]Important things to be in agreement on. Financial philosophy / saving, spending etc Family philosophy. If you’re pretty young and don’t have firm ideas yet about kids yet that’s fine, as long as you agree Communication. This is the big one l learned after being married for 20 years then divorcing. My ex could not have a difficult conversation. He just shut down. I figured out that this is his his family is. I tried for some years to improve this, and we did couples therapy a few times, but then l stopped trying. Not taking care of the hard stuff early is a killer. If you have already weathered some storms with good communication prior to marriage that’s a good thing. I do recommend living together for at least a year before setting a wedding date. [/quote]
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