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[quote=Anonymous]Married for 30 years. Neither of us had been married before. For us, being on the same page financially was important. We made agreements in the beginning and never went back on them.

At the time agreeing that we’d have kids seemed important but in retrospect it wasn’t. Despite it being really important before we married, we both went back and forth so many times on if, when and how many. (We have three with the first coming after 14 years of marriage - seriously a lot of back and forth on the if).

I think the biggest reasons we’re successful and happy has to do with the way we treat each other and that we are both willing to do things for the other even if we don’t want to or it’s difficult (like visiting in laws). We don’t keep score of who does what and we both are always working to make things easier for the other. So if you can figure out how you will be treated and how you will treat your spouse, that might be helpful. Like if it’s important that your spouse do half of everything, it’s good to know if they are on the same page.

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