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[quote=Anonymous]Insist that she apply for a mix (selective and safety schools, even for him ). Tell her it is possible they may break up before they leave for college. Also, long distance relationships can work. Perhaps say she would be allowed to visit his family if they move. Basically negotiate. You are trying to help her envision keeping him and a school that meets her needs. Right now, she thinks she has to choose one or the other. Change that mindset (don’t try to talk her out if dating him at this point. That will likely end the discussion.) But tell her you won’t let her close doors she may regret, at such a young age.[/quote]
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