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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here: we had a very intense romance with exH, got married after a year of dating very early when I was 22. He wasn’t an “old fart” at his 36. In fact, he was very physically attractive and we had a good sex luge for the first 3 years of marriage (particular after birth when I got more curves). But then he cooled off and focused on his career. I am as much a gold digger as anyone who marries rich and successful men.

I have a very athletic adolescent son and as I was a “tiger” mom all I do in sports is basically from participating in his life and activities. I think people just don’t understand why toddlers are cranky; they are bored at home ! Toddler boys need constant switch of activities, scenery, physical activity to sleep abs eat well. My son traveled internationally at age 1; we just carried him along in a seat on our shoulders. He windsurfs since 7, bikes since 5 and so on. Traveling is fun with little kids. I have 3 female friends in their 50s who had kids later in life. One mom us 62 and she had twins at 48. She divorced her husband but having kids that late in her life was the best thing she did. She travels with her daughter, they are best friends with her son and she has tons of money to support her kids.

I do think often that people underestimate how increased life expectancy changes things. If average longevity of women who are now in their 20s would be 94 yo, why not having kids later in life? I am open to adopt, use a donor egg, or a surrogate.  My projected longevity is 84-89 yo. My grandma was working till age 69 as a pharmacy director and died at 89. She did all kinds of things in between, including helping to raise 3 grandkids. What am I supposed to do for the next 50 years of my life???

If I don’t meet someone by my 50 yo I am certain to adopt.

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Why are you rambling on about your athletic son?  I really don’t get what that has to do with you.  Did you ever have a career? It sounds like you never really made a life for yourself outside of your son and now you don’t know what to do with your time.

You do have a dating dilemma.  Most men dating in their 40s are divorced with younger kids and they will likely be sharing 50/50 custody with ex.  So you will only get hot sex part time, at best, and have to put up with ex wife drama.  They won’t be available for all your rafting and mountain climbing either.  Men with grown kids that are out of the house are going to be significantly older than you.  Many have erectile dysfunction is some degree.  And they are not going to want another child.  [/quote]

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