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THIS IS NOT YOUR FRIEND'S FAULT.

REPEAT UNTIL YOU ACCEPT IT, OP.

YOU DO NOT NEED TO SAY ANYTHING ABOUT HER SON, GOOD OR BAD.
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It may not be her fault, but if she continues to shelter him and enable him and defend him, then our friendship is done. [/quote]

Don’t be so naively cruel. If your adult child did something terrible, you would want justice done. But you would also seek help for your child and support from your friends.

Point is: it can happen to any of us. We are not our spouse. We are not our kids. We are responsible for our own actions, not those of others. We can only extend grace to one another. It is not a relative’s fault that a family member is a criminal.

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I'm not naive nor cruel. This is not your garden variety of something terrible, CP and the sextual exploitation of children is about one of the most vile thing on earth. Given the overwhelming evidence, if she continues to be in denial about her son and continues to defend him, I'd lose respect for her.

I'm all for compassion and kindness, but I also want sound judgment and integrity from people I associate with.  [/quote]

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