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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hi everyone it’s op. I’m not a troll. I’m also not a helicopter mom, that is true. But I don’t let my four year old roam the neighborhood. I was inside when this happened and my kids were playing outside with a bunch of other kids in our fenced backyard. According to my son and our outdoor cameras the boy came and got him and took him over to his house. It took literally the time it takes for pasta water to boil because that’s what I’m inside doing when it happened. The other children did not notice he was gone and neither did I until the dad brought him back. Do none of you let your kids play in your backyard without watching them every second? I thought it was ok but now I see I’ll have to be more vigilant even in this scenario. .

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The issue here is that your 4yr old is not ready to be left alone in the backyard.  He has demonstrated that he is willing to leave the yard with someone else.  While I get that the 6yr old touching your son is inappropriate, think of what else could have happened.  What if a stranger has come to the fence and asked your 4yr old to come with him?  You were inside boiling water and the other kids didn’t see him leave.  Now where is your son?[/quote]

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