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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What do you think? My bf went over his ex wife to celebrate his sons bday. I was okay with it and understand he needs to celebrate his son until i find out he drank there and stayed past 10pm. Should I be concerned?[/quote]

Need more details OP, because this doesn't sound like a big deal. Is the problem that it's a little kid who went to bed at 8 and he stayed 2 more hours drinking beers and talking to his ex, AKA the mother of his children? Has he given you reason to suspect he might cheat on you and be untruthful? Has he given you reason to suspect he wants to be with her?

I'm married, but would assume part of dating someone with kids is that they will still spend time with their ex, and that they will have things they need or want to talk about. They may even be friends who enjoy each other's company. Since it bothered you, I think you can be honest with him and tell him that it did, but I wouldn't try to tell him it was inappropriate or that you expect him not to do it.

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1) There’s a lot to discuss with your coparent. It must be nice to do it with a chat over a few beers rather than through terse emails.
2) As someone else pointed out, keeping or reestablishing a friendship between exes is a sign they are both mature people.[/quote]

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