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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A lot of women just stop taking birth control. Just being honest. If your husband is broke and you think he’s be a terrible father, I don’t recommend this method, unless you can provide yourself and any kids and don’t mind doing the majority of child rearing [/quote]

No, sorry.  This is absolutely a horrifically awful thing to do.  You promise someone you will love and support them and then you deliberately take from them one of the most important and difficult decisions a person will ever make.  Terrible.

I mean come on, people, if a man sabotaged his wife's birth control pills not one person would be defending him.  This is as bad.

If he vetoes kids and you want them, you get a divorce.[/quote]

I am a woman and agree this is not justified in any way (and we would not like it if roles were reversed).

On another note, OP, did you not discuss this with your husband in advance of marrying him?

You are engaging in magical thinking, which is immature and maladaptive. Stop being so passive. [/quote]

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