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[quote=Anonymous]Because women do the lion share of child rearing and housework and invisible mental load. I have a family member however, who called herself a SAHM but outsourced all of that. Her dh worked full time, actually cooked, and far more hands on with the kids while the wife was just spoiled and literally spent the days working out, playing golf/tennis, lunching, and drinking. And not a nice person to boot. I judge her harshly. Wouldn’t judge a guy who is a great sah parent, wouldn’t judge anyone for being a sah parent. It’s a great thing for a family if you can swing it. I do judge however sah parents who don’t do anything, the same type whose boredom usually evolves into nastiness. [/quote]
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