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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There is being grateful and then there is the fact that kids don’t ask to be born. You chose to bring the child into the world, so the flip side of your argument is that as a result of your choice, you were the one responsible for providing her a stable home. That’s how I look at it.  Are you looking for validation? How strange. [/quote]

I'm a CFBC adult and love this PP. Thank you for being a voice of reason. [/quote]

what is CFBC?

I don't think this is the voice of reason. It's a very twisted way of looking at life. Most people are at least grateful to have been born. At least. If you don't enjoy life and only think you were born because of someone else's choices in life, there is something wrong.[/quote]

What is there to enjoy? Do you think the human condition is so amazing? We are so vulnerable as a species and as individuals (women more so than men when being victims of violence). We all have to face death at some point and getting there varies for each of us but [b]there is so much anxiety, depression, physical ailments etc. [/b]And yes, those of us who are living were born because of our parents' choices to have unprotected sex. Sorry to burst your bubble but no one actually CHOOSES to be born. There's nothing to be grateful for. If you feel grateful, good for you but you don't get to tell someone their way of thinking about life is 'twisted'. CFBC= childfree by choice[/quote]

Your problem is the bolded apparently. You can fix these things. There is much to be grateful for in life. Also much that sucks. Unless you are living in solitary confinement under a life sentence, you can find the way out of your misery. There is something wrong with you that can be fixed, PP. It's not the human condition that's making you miserable. If it were, all of us would be miserable.

And you're not bursting my bubble either. Any idiot knows we don't choose to be born. Any idiot also knows that life is what you make of it.[/quote]

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