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[quote=Anonymous]You need to make allowances for the pandemic, but you also need to push him to look ahead. "Not taking a job just so he can move out"? Dude, being able to pay for basics is exactly why people take jobs. Does he need psychological counseling? Career counseling? I have a BIL who lived with my ILs until they both died. He moved out occasionally, to a rented room or a group house, but the guy eventually earned a master's degree and still never got a full-time, salaried position with benefits. And that would be fine if he had some sort of calling to a field where that wasn't an option, but he only decided in his 40s? 50s? that he would like that sort of job, and his resume makes him look like a Weirdo Adrift, not a valuable member of some team somewhere. [/quote]
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