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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You are expecting an 18 yr old that lives and is dependent on her mother to now somehow function independently and think independently.  It isn’t going to happen- yet.  Be “the good guy” to her.  When she is old enough and truly independent from her mother, she may seek out a relationship with you.  [/quote]

Agreed. My teens are good kids, but they remember my birthday largely because my spouse (their other parent) reminds them of the fact and helps organize the celebration. Same for mothers' day/fathers' day.

If you want to get to know your young adult child better, spend time with them. Call them. Write them. Tell them about your life. Invite them to spend time with you, and understand if they're too busy or uninterested because they've got other stuff going on in their life.

When I was 18, I had over 6000 days of being with my parents to build up a solid relationship, and I was still an immature jerk to them at times. I'm guessing you need more quality time together (in person or virtually) to develop a relationship before you start chiding her for not being attentive enough.[/quote]

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