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Reply to "Pendente Lite Guideline vs Actual Spousal Support (in VA) -- How did it compare in your case? SAHM"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yikes at this thread. Never get married fellas![/quote] Yikes at this thread. Never give up your job to stay home, ladies! You need to look out for number one. [/quote] +1 At a minimum keep one foot in the door with part time. Once you fully step out it’s nearly impossible to get back in in middle age.[/quote] There are tons of jobs available. Maybe the ex should pay for schooling and time to go to school with childcare and then be done with alimony.[/quote] These tons of jobs available are low paying jobs. I went to make $55,000/year after 10 years at home. My salary prior to SAH was $85,000 15 years ago. The point of alimony is not just to compensate for re-eduction but also for huge income discrepancy between spouses. Thus this "formula" If he's making $1mm after she supported him for years at home with 3 kids, the exW should not be left on $50K/year income alone[/quote]
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