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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I really don’t understand the prior posts. I don’t see it as a big deal for your BF and kids to be there, if it’s all as you say. That said, I probably would just have dinner with your child on his bday, as you are entitled to. It just wouldn’t be worth the drama to include BF and his kids; just do that another time despite the convenience of them being in town that weekend. I’m not divorced, but I think that’s how I’d handle it.[/quote] Its uncomfortable for the ex. OP ask, ex decline and she's upset. She can take child to lunch instead or she can ask the child what they'd like as they may not want to see boyfriend and his kids. She is making them the focus and not her child. She only has her child a few hours. She can see boyfriend and kids before or after her visit with her child. She's entitled to see him, not necessarily entitled to dinner.[/quote]
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