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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I wouldn’t do it because I think it has potential to create too many issues for the child. If you tell them, then they spend their whole life wondering why their father gave them away. If you don’t and they do DNA testing they will find out and then everyone has potential to be the bad guy for not being open and not allowing the father to parent. [/quote] Many studies show donor conceived children are well-adjusted and that it is best to tell them early on. Issues with this set up stem from people who had no idea finding out from a DNA test later in life. There are children's books on the topic for kids like this and many therapists who specialize in this issue. The donor will not be the “father” but a donor. OP’s husband will be the father.[/quote]
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