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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Thanks, all.  This is OP.  PP is correct that she was already feeling a little anxious about camp and attending somewhat reluctantly.  Now that it appears her buddy won't make it, she's been tearful and pretty adamant that she doesn't want to go anymore   :( .  But also agree that facing her fears could be a great opportunity for personal growth.

To answer a few of the questions posted earlier it's one of the local-ish GS camps and yes, it's only one week.  I don't want to provide too much identifying info, so will leave it at that.  There's still a slim chance that her friend could make it (or come a day or two late) but unfortunately we won't know until the last minute, which makes planning very difficult.  I'm a little reluctant to request a bunk change when her friend might still end up coming.  [/quote]

OP, I'm 15:33/other posts - have you asked what her specific reasons are for not going?  I also have a 10 year old DD and when she's nervous about things it's very helpful for me to know exactly why.  Some things need empathy and encouragement to do whatever the thing is; other times, she has very valid reasons for not wanting to do something.

You know your daughter better than any of the PPs on this thread.  Broadly, exposure is better for addressing anxiety than avoidance (hence why the SPACE model is so effective), but details also matter.  Good luck.[/quote]

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