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[quote=Anonymous]I judge two parents. One is a dad who I’m on a board with and is always scheduling meetings for impossible times that I’ve said well in advance won’t work (10 am notice for a 2 pm on a Saturday!). He is consistently startled that I have to scramble for childcare. The only mom I judge is one who is always frustrated that I’m not free to meet up. She has two nannies, cleaners, plus multiple female relatives who back her up and drive her kids to activities and provide childcare on breaks. She doesn’t understand why I’m not free on the days I’m driving my kid somewhere or have to watch her on a school conference day, and will say things like “can’t someone else take her?”. No, no they can’t, because I don’t have a someone else. So I don’t resent or judge someone unless they have no ability to understand that their situation is not universal.[/quote]
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