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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]And I realize this sounds like me whining that I'm good and perfect and he's a horrible person. That's not what I'm trying to say. I have flaws, and I think he is a good person at his core. I am not trying to whine. I just want to know how to trust again.  [/quote]

Whining? Holy crap, no, you sound like someone who has just experienced a major trauma.

Does your ex have mental problems? It really sounds like he's having some kind of breakdown. Truly.

Please know that you DO NOT deserve any of what he said. A healthy person does not say any of that, no break up with someone on their birthday. Something terribly wrong with your ex, OP.[/quote]
Op. I was a selfish girlfriend. I was a bad partner during Covid. I had anxiety and it made his anxiety worse. He wasn’t this way until recently. I pushed him to it.[/quote]

Why are you trying to excuse his behavior?  Why do you think it's ok for someone to talk to their partner like this? It's not okay, and you need to see that.  This is how an abusive relationship works.  He breaks you down, treats you like shit, and then when he changes for a moment and treats you nicely, you think everything is rainbows and unicorns because the bad moments make the good moments seem SO good.  But guess what? It always will go back to him being a jerk and treating you like crap and you thinking it's your fault.

Be strong and be glad you got out of this before you moved in together or worse, had a kid together.  Don't be tempted to ever get back together.  You are smarter and stronger than you are giving yourself credit for.[/quote]

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