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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You have dodged a bullet. In time this reframing may be easier and automatic, but how lucky you are to have not started out a new year with that bad rubbish. Block him. He probably won't come back but block him. You said that you have been working on this for a while. [b]In the beginning, with no kids and no aging parents it should be easy and fun. It gets harder but that is when you draw on all of that love and goodwill and pure joy from the beginning[/b]. Please consider going to therapy (short term, I don't think everything needs a therapist) to help you process this and to deal with what might be hard as you learn to trust yourself and your instincts again. This is a good time in your life to start again, and summer is the perfect time to get out and have some easy breezy dates when you are ready. 
Finally, do not mourn him or the relationship. Any "mourning" would you be wishing he was a different person and you can't make that happen. [/quote]

Re: the bolded.  Only white women go through these difficult, fraught boyfriend girlfriend relationships and waste years of their fertility on something that is clearly not working and involves no permanent commitment on the part of the man.  Please stop doing this, it’s so sad.[/quote]

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