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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]And I realize this sounds like me whining that I'm good and perfect and he's a horrible person. That's not what I'm trying to say. I have flaws, and I think he is a good person at his core. I am not trying to whine. I just want to know how to trust again.  [/quote]

Whining? Holy crap, no, you sound like someone who has just experienced a major trauma.

Does your ex have mental problems? It really sounds like he's having some kind of breakdown. Truly.

Please know that you DO NOT deserve any of what he said. A healthy person does not say any of that, no break up with someone on their birthday. Something terribly wrong with your ex, OP.[/quote]
Op. I was a selfish girlfriend. I was a bad partner during Covid. I had anxiety and it made his anxiety worse. He wasn’t this way until recently. I pushed him to it.[/quote]

You may have pushed him to break up with you but you didn't push him to speak to you like that.

I don't believe the "now I see you for who you really are" angle that some people like to use when someone has an angry outburst, because people do say things during fights that they don't really mean and that does not mean there is not some monster lurking just under the surface that has now been exposed.

But what your ex said to you -- no, you did not deserve that.[/quote]

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