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[quote=Anonymous]First of all, you must speak to your husband about this and get the full story.  How did this start?  And why -  was your marriage troubled? If so, can it be fixed?  He ended the relationship - what made him end it?   Was he remorseful and just wanted to go back to having a normal relationship with you?  Was she married too and did she somehow think they'd end up together?  If so, what made her think that.

There is a lot to unpack in this situation.  You need details (whether you want them or not) so you can fully process what happened and make decisions on where to go from here.

I have been in your shoes and when I found out, I immediately felt as though it was me and I had done something to cause this.  As it turns out, my husband had some serious emotional issues that made him vulnerable to an affair.  In my case, the AP pursued him and he said it made him feel better about himself at a time he wasn't particularly happy.  This is definitely not an excuse, and he did not get a pass, but it helped me understand that what happened to our marriage was on him, not me.  [/quote]

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