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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was dating a single mom last year, and I was thinking seriously about first moving to her school district (we both rented at the time), and then in a few years buying a house with her which would be large enough for everyone. [/quote] What happened?[/quote] I don't know what happened. She broke up with me. [/quote] You dodged a bullet, man. Learn the proper lesson and never even think about moving in with a single mom. Unless the idea of paying to support her kids while they disrespect you and constantly shout "you're not my real dad!" is somehow appealing?[/quote] As a single mom, I would never let you move in with me. I got rid of dead weight when I divorced their father. I don't need a man child to take care of again. [/quote] That’s fine, I don’t want to support your dead weight or deal with a bitter shrill single mom like you or deal with your demon-spawn.[/quote] That's right. Worry about your own demon-spawn. Oh wait, you probably don't take care of them. Judging by what you write, you're most likely a deadbeat who blames women for his own f-ups.[/quote] I have full custody. Try again. It's my XW who doesn't pay what she agreed to pay in the separation agreement, but nobody gives a shit about "deadbeat moms", least of all the court system.[/quote] Full custody doesn’t mean you are actually parenting your kids.[/quote] Well let's see, among other things I plan, schedule, pay for, and transport them to all their extracurriculars, vacations, doctor appointments, sleepovers, birthday parties, and summer camps. I help them with their homework, I arrange and pay tutors as needed, I take them outside to exercise (walks, bike rides, pickleball, kayaking, etc), I take them to the movies, I read to them at night. I cook their meals (including their lunches during the school year) and wash their clothes. Lots of other stuff too. So, I might not be "actually parenting" but I'm doing a heck of a lot more than XW. When the kids are with them, they sit there and play on their electronics while she pokes at her phone.[/quote]
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