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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]People in a family shouldn't "MYOB". It is not judgemental to care about someone clearly ruining their health and their future. There has to be a way to help obese SIL without it being "meddling." This is family. SIL is using food the way some people use drugs or alcohol. She needs help. I don't know what to tell you, OP. There are a lot of weird psychological issues that go into being obese. Ask a counselor for help. Good for your for caring about your SIL. Too many emotionally sterile people on this board who do not overlap with anyone, not even their own family members. Really weird.[/quote] Anyone who is using judgmental language like “lazy” towards someone with a medical issue, and possibly mental health issues, needs to mind their own business, and F off while they’re at it. They shouldn’t be the ones holding an intervention as they only see these people 4 times a year, so any of the other information they have is tattling from SILs DH. This is the DH who seems to have his own -ism related to work and being able to conduct normal activities of daily living, like feeding himself nutritious food and looking after his own health issues. Maybe they could start there with the interventions? [/quote]
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