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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I've been with DH for 22 years, and while dating and all years since, if someone was traveling during a birthday (which has happened many, many times thanks to us both having pretty busy work travel schedules) then the unspoken default is always doing something after the traveler gets home.

I would assume something similar here.

I also think it's pretty normal at 6 months into the relationship that the BF is still in the "how serious are we" phase and may not want to come on too strong by being all "i'm doing this big birthday thing for you!" Maybe he's waiting for you to say "i would love to do something with you after i get back for my birthday" and then he'll run with it.

All of the above seems way more normal to me than assuming your BF is going to plan something big for your bday without any input on your part the night before you leave for a work trip.

OP is a lot of drama. [/quote]

Where did OP say it had to be anything "big"? And I personally think having to tell someone you would love to do something with them for your own birthday is a huge turnoff.[/quote]

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