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[quote=Anonymous]I'd be surprised if he does nothing for your bday given that he knows it's coming up and knows (or should know, based on the fact that you've discussed it with him) that this was a sore spot in your last relationship and is important to you.

Just wait and see. Don't get so upset before it's even happened yet.

That said, if he doesn't do anything to acknowledge your birthday, I do think you should take that as a sign that you and he are not on the same page about this and that might be a sign you are not compatible with each other.

In my relationship, my DH and I don't make a big deal of birthdays or anniversaries or other special occasions and no one gets their feelings hurt because this is what we both like/expect. But if one of us really cared about our bday getting acknowledgment, we would do that because it's important to do things that make the other partner in the relationship feel loved and appreciated and for some people that's acknowledging a bday.

OP has every right to want and expect her BF to do something special for her bday. It's not silly or immature or high maintenance. [/quote]

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