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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Thanks for all for the advice and support. It's a difficult and isolating journey. Sometimes it's difficult to forgive myself for ending up in this situation - how did I miss red flags, should have gotten out earlier before children or when my children were much younger. Regrets don't get you anywhere constructive. I need to focus on how to exit in the most strategic way with the least amount of damage. The recommendation to speak with the FSO at work is helpful. I'm sure they have encountered this situation. So far, I've kept my struggle very private and not mentioned it to anyone at work. [/quote] There are lawyers who specialize in helping people with security clearance problems. I would consult an attorney who specializes in that area - I’m sure they would be able to advise you about how to protect yourself on this issue in divorce. Ask that person if they can recommend any divorce attorneys with experience re security clearances. A consult should cost you less than a thousand dollars for a couple hours of advice. [/quote]
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