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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You are a psycho. Seek help.[/quote] No. She is a woman with a poorly taught husband who complains and is lazy. And she is rightfully mad. Being mad because people treat you like crud is not crazy. [/quote] If a man were on here saying he dumped laundry on his wife we would be lighting him on fire. [/quote] OP here. Rarely, women won't do laundry. Men don't do that because they don't have to. [/quote] My husband does the majority of laundry in our house. DH and I divide things pretty equally and have jobs that bring in roughly the same money. We have disagreements and sometimes ask each other to pick up slack or finish up on X thing that needs to get done. But here’s what: dumping something on someone is a physical act of aggression. And that is never OK. Never. If he kept a record of your actions for divorce court, you can bet this one would come up and would paint you in a psycho light.[/quote] Hopefully the DH has photo evidence of all the injuries and bruises he got from the clothes falling on his head. :roll: [/quote] All he needs to do is keep notes of days/times of inappropriate behavior. It doesn’t have to be violent to show a pattern of inappropriate, unstable behavior. OP would not come off looking good if that story were told in a courtroom or in arbitration.[/quote]
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