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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have been there. IME, my anger was related to think fact that I thought DH would get it at some point and change his ways. Once I realized that was never going to happen, I started acting like a single parent and doing everything myself or asking other reliable people for help or paid out-sourcing.  I grey-rocked DH and really only interacted politely and superficially.  All this made life 100% less stressful. 
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Of course, it made me lose all respect foe DH and any sexual interest I used to have pretty much disappeared. I did nog want to have sex with a man-baby.  Eventually I asked him to move out[/b]. [/quote]

This is where we are headed. I try the grey-rock/never reply on him/wait for him to catch up and it hasn't happened. I have a lot of help in other ways and can generally tread water without his assistance in most ways but then there are times when I get tipped over the edge and he manages to ADD to my plate rather than step up. No interest sexually and will eventually likely let him loose.

Trying to ignore all of the previous rude comments. But if you have kids (and married or not...sorry for confusing those - my first post should have said: "don't ask why I had a kid with him") the story is always more complicated and working things out is often the route we pursue.

Thank you for the helpful responses. [/quote]

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